A podcast about hypnotherapy

A short podcast about hypnotherapy

A little while ago, through the personal development podcast, I decided to give a brief overview of what hypnotherapy is like – well from my point of view, which is all I can give. I wanted people to know that whatever your issues Hypnosis, NLP and Time Line Therapy(TM) can usually help and with such a great effect. No one should put up with not feeling how they want to feel  and so few know what’s really available from the wealth of good hypnotherapists around.

For some, you may be considering going to a hypnotherapist. Well, I thought you may want to have a heads up on to what to look for. These are only my thoughts and opinions so they are obviously based on what I have experienced or learnt along the way and I know there are other thoughts and opinions – I can only share you mine.

Most think of stopping smoking or weight loss when thinking of working with a hypnotherapist and in my experience these are the smaller percentages of client base. Anxiety, panic, depression, OCD, social phobia. PTSD, you fill in the blank etc are all emotional states and behaviours that part and parcel of what are helped overcome.

The most important thing to remember is – you’re NOT broken and do NOT need curing! There are so many great hypnotherapists around doing great work and helping people getting back on track. Go seek one out and make great changes to your life.

You deserve to create the life you wish for and getting a little help just makes that a little quicker.

Here’s the podcast

Shine brightly
Paul

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Free Personal Development podcasts

Personal Development Unplugged

If you haven’t yet listened to these podcasts and you’re interested in making your life better then you have missed a treat

There’s so much to follow with free hypnosis tracks

the best way is to subscribe to iTunes and get them downloads as new ones come along

Just search for Paul Clough in the podcast section

you can also find them on Paul’s web site ~ just click on this bold bit  www.paulclouh.co.uk

Here’s a list of whats been uploaded to date:

#2 Dealing with Anxiety
#3
Coping with Grief

#4 Letting go of Limiting Beliefs and free hypnosis track

#5 Learning from a different perspective

#6 Regaining That Loving Feeling  and free hypnosis track

#7 recording and remembering what you enjoy

#8 Paused for thought and free hypnosis track

you can can subscribe direct in iTunes Personal Development Unplugged – Paul Clough , and you can share or leave a review

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hypnotherapy to forget (in Bournemouth)

Changing the way you remember with Bournemouth Hypnotherapy Clinic

Last week I worked with another wonderful client. From the initial consultation she said she wanted to forget someone from her past – completely. No memory of that person, as if they never existed.

So let’s rewind to the initial consultation and this request. Could I or indeed anyone make a person disappear from your memories or past? I actually feel it probably is possible but this is where my training and some may call it code of ethics or simply best practise; because you see just because something may be possible doesn’t make it right when you consider the implications, the effects.

You see, consider if we did this together what would people think of my client when she denied ever having been with this person? What would my client be saying to herself when they saw photographs of the two of them together? You’re mad or “am I going mad?”

Even more important to me and the way I work is if we learn from every experience we won’t make the same mistake again. Imagine this client meeting the same type of person again and again and being totally unfulfilled. Oh…….. Isn’t that what some people actually do and you hear them saying “ I just don’t seem to meet someone different and end up with same old same old!” what an outlook to have!!

So……….although this client was continuing to question their want to have this person disappear from their memories I stood fast and continued to explain and reframe the need to learn from our experiences and that in some way that person taught us something valuable, only valuable however, if we choose to learn and use those learnings in the future.

So what happened??????

One session, yes in only one session this client did a fantastic job of working with me and let go of all those negative feelings. Feeling different in the therapy office/room is one thing but to have the changes in the real world outside is the only real test to know the work we have done together has really worked. So one week later having really gone out and tested our work, their work really as they have to do all the work, 100% result and as usually happens other areas of their life had begun to get better too. A double/triple whammie (however you spell that??)

As usual if you wish to experience changes like these, or any other for that matter get in touch and come along for one of our complimentary consultations and find out how you can……..change now!!!!

Call 01202 428 309

Or email via our contact page on the website by clicking here

 

Paul

 

 

 

 

 

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A good way to remember those we love ~ Dealing with grief in a simple way

Dealing and coping with grief in Bournemouth

I have recently been planning a set of podcasts one of which is about dealing with grief and loss. I’ll even be giving away my own little eBook ‘It doesn’t have to be this way’. As I was thinking about the content I remembered this old blog posting written when I was in  Cambridge and thought if this is still relevant today as is all the simple ways we work in changing the way we feel quickly, simply and elegantly.

Here it is………………………

Today is the 2nd anniversary of my mothers passing and who knows what has prompted me to write this, other than to pass on some thoughts. (or maybe just some personal ramblings)

There’s a line in a song

‘ you left me here, to remind me of you’ and that to me is a comfort

~ as long as I am here, so will she.

and hopefully I can display those wonderful qualities she taught me by the way she was and the way she still is within me.

We don’t have to be sad, angry or alone when we remember those who have left us ~ I’m not ~ I miss her and speak to her most days and listen. Not just with my ears but with an awareness and I seem to understand.

But how can you remember in a way that makes you feel ok?

This is what I do.

I think of a good time(s) with her and see it as if I’m looking through my own eyes.

I’m there again,seeing what I saw, hearing what I heard and I feel the good feelings I had and every good memory is the same way. I make it that way because that’s how I want it to be.

If any memory isn’t of a good time, I see it differently. I see myself in the memory, (as if it’s a movie with me in it) over there and I make it smaller and darker, I make it still and move it away from me ~ any not so good feeling just diminish

This is not the only way but a sure way to remember what you want, how you want to and it’s good to remember because……………..

‘ you left me here, to remind me of you’

Enjoy your every heart beat

Paul

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let go of bad emotions ~ Bournemouth Hypnotherapy Clinic

NLP, Time Line Therapy(TM) and Hypnosis the perfect way to Clearing Negative Emotions.

I am continually amazed

I have been involved with helping people clear and let go of all sorts of bad feeling. From anger, sadness, grief and the whole recipe that is depression~  so why do we hold on to these feelings and the thing that really amazes me, how long we (that’s all of us) can hold onto old negative emotions. Hold on to them even when we think they’re gone. How do I know this? I’ll tell you in a minute.

The thing is these negative emotions continue to affect our quality of life and the decisions we make. Like a snow ball, they start of very small and as life rolls on they get bigger and bigger and for some then it’s just overwhelm.

So how do I know this? Time Line Therapy™ that’s how. Now this probably makes no sense to you at all, unless you know about TLT.

So let’s make a little sense out of this. When working with a client who is suffering from anxiety, which is really fear of what has happened in the past will repeat in the future, we may use Time Line Therapy ™ processes.

A typical session would also include dealing with anger and sadness and although nearly every clients says well I’m not really an angry or sad person, when we look a little deeper we find memories from years ago that still hold those emotions. Because the processes work so quickly, normally around 5-10 minutes for each emotion, we can really clear the entire unconscious blocks that were all part of the problem and different processes may not so cleanly achieve. That’s what and why I like Time Line Therapy™, it’s thorough, quick and my clients are always comfortable in the change process.

Just so you know why they remain comfortable ~ it’s because my clients never go to any negatively charged memory and relive it. I know some therapist have the client do this but I don’t agree with this and I won’t let my clients be anything other than comfortable when making changes. In fact all of here at Bournemouth Hypnotherapy Clinic we all have the same philosophy to make change, whatever or however bad the initial feelings our clients are experiencing it isn’t necessary to feel bad when we let them go and we won’t let our clients re-experience what caused the problem, we know too many better ways to work with clients.

Here’s a little tester:

Think of a specific memory of anger that when you think of it you can rate that anger out of 10. 10 being totally angry and 0 being completely neutral.

Have you done that? If you have and it’s not a 0 then you’re carrying around anger and it will affect what and how you act or react to greater or lesser degrees. If you notice how long ago that memory was and it may be years then it is probably time to let it go.

Come and have chat with us personally by either calling us on 01223 720 120 or emailing via the contact form by clicking HERE.

 

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Learning NLP and Hypnosis with a difference

A Master Class in NLP and Hypnosis with a difference!

This month it was so nice to be able to share the things that we do, within our Hypnotherapy Clinics in Cambridge and Bournemouth, to our Students who have become Practitioners with us.

This time was a little different as, with Joseph being in the USA and unable to attend Luke (Clough), yes there’s a bunch of us Cloughs around helping change clients problems quickly and comfortably, came and co-trained with me.

I’m so fortunate to be able to share the things we feel make the difference and have a wonderful rapport with my sons whilst doing so. It always amazes me how supportive we are to each other, wanting each other to excel ahead of ourselves. And it’s this that I feel makes a difference to our training courses and produces things like this

galaxies apart from the rest!

Massive gratitude and thanks to the talented Paul Clough and Luke Clough for the amazing NLP Master Class this wk end! Your skill and passion for helping others overcome their fears and limited beliefs knows no bounds and your exceptional training abilities and enthusiasm to see your practitioners get the best results sets you galaxies apart from the rest! Nat Harrison 1/2/15

And it’s comments like the one above and the enthusiasm show by all our practitioners spurs me on to find even better ways to learn NLP and Real Hypnosis that is useful from the very start and fun, creative and motivational.

Sometimes it’s just the reminding of the simple things that work so well but just need a little practice and more importantly ownership that can create real change. It’s how to make this practise without pressure or anxiety but with a passion to enjoy it all :o)

So be aware if you’re considering NLP and learning Hypnosis it may seriously affect you health……………………IN A GOOD WAY

 

 

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Yemanja Therapy a friend of Bournemouth Hypnotherapy Clinic

More Therapy opportunities in Southbourne

Isn’t it great that new business in Southbourne come to the High Street and better still when it’s Holistic.

I popped into Yemanja Therapy to introduce myself and get acquainted and was met by Matt (Smith) and what a nice person he is. Right from the beginning he was extremely friendly and someone giving a true holistic service which showed in both him and the centre.

Know I’m going to be popping back for a chat (and hopefully a coffee) and will be recommending our clients who would benefit from all that Matt offers not just because it’s a local business but because what Matt is bringing to Southbourne.

Check out the website www.yemanjatherapy.co.uk or call him on 01202 430577 or better still do what I did and pop in and see for yourself.

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Getting positive results with (Bournemouth) Hypnotherapy (clinic)

Little steps to a full life of achievement

I’ve noticed lately that so many people when trying to either reach a goal or make changes in their life, with the best of intentions, go about it in a way that almost always ends up in failure!

What a great shame when we see what we want in life, read about it and dream of having it only to be another “I wish” or even worse “If only I’d persisted a little more”

There’s a sure fire way to stop this happening and it’s the same process I teach my clients here at Bournemouth Hypnotherapy Clinic when they leave to really test our work together.

Before we get to this small but powerful and successful way let’s just take a moment to set the scene for both scenarios.

Achieving your goals ~ We are told in many books and such things as the Law of Attraction etc. to set our goals big and I mean BIG! And I agree whole heartily in this too. We live in our ‘adult Heads’ all day and are prepared to settle for something less than we deserve.

However, if we were to adopt a child’s imagination where anything and everything is possible we dream both Big and also with total freedom and acceptance -That’s the real magic of a dream!! When we do this we can literally feel what it will be like to achieve the dream that’s now a goal.

We can then, if we know the steps, can now work backwards, That’s right backwards, and work out what needs to happen just before achieving our goal and then the step before that and then the step before that and then….. well you get the picture.

But if we don’t know the steps does that mean the goal is unachievable? ~ absolutely

~ NOT!

But so many think so, which means they don’t even begin or think of the largest first step and get scared or have a feeling of failure and give up, re-enforcing their old negative beliefs around failure and not being good enough and any other number of limiting negative beliefs you can think of now.

Testing our change work ~ I’ve noticed and been told of great change work being done in the office but in testing in the real world the client either picked a test way too big for a first test or got so anxious of the same sort of extreme thing to do they just gave up and again reinforced their previous old belief that was so nearly a thing of the past and just needed a gentle push away.

The PROCESS ~

In the paragraph above a mentioned ‘just a gentle push away’ and that’s the essence of the process. Being GENTLE with ourselves.

In both achieving our goals, which we now will call outcomes, and ratifying consciously the great changes you made in a therapy session the process is exactly the same and it is sooooooooo simple!!

In imagining the biggest outcome we desire we get to know what that will feel like when we get it – so simply hold that feeling.

Following our session my clients know what the feeling is they will have to succeed being their true selves so they are simple asked to remember and hold that feeling.

Then………

As you think of what to do, either towards your outcome or test of the change work, you simply hold that feeling and think or ask yourself for the smallest step towards the outcome you can make and still have this feeling and then just do it.

If you think of a step and that feeling is less intense or disappears it just means the step is too big, that’s all! So simply return to that feeling you will feel and think or ask for a smaller step that still retains that feeling for you and do that instead.

You will notice at first the steps will be minute and that’s absolutely correct but the thing is you will soon be leaping forward and always with that feeling which will lead you to your outcome and more.

As Neville Goddard so wisely wrote many years before

“Assume the wish fulfilled and act upon it”

If you want to know more call us on 01202 428 309

or email: enquiries@bournemouthhypnotherapyclininc.co.uk

 

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Bournemouth Hypnotherapy changing the way you feel

Learn How to be happy with the Bournemouth Hypnotherapy Clinic

Hypnosis, Hypnotherapy and NLP are great ways to change your state, the way you feel. No drugs, tranquilizers or medication, just you and your mind the most powerful computer ever built and never used to it’s full capacity!

We (Bournemouth Hypnotherapy Clinic) have been helping clients, with really great results, people just like you, to change the way you feel ~ from something uncomfortable and in some cases really bad to ways you enjoy. Some even say their old self but even better!!

The thing is that we use the natural ways i.e. the thing you do without thinking but in a good way. Too often we can be ok and in a moment something happens which we’re not consciously aware of and our mood (state) changes. Well if this can happen in a negative way the good news is we can use the same process to go from negative to positive feelings. You might want to check out our website to find out more how we can help you in particular?

Before you do that…………………

Have you ever seen lists of how to be this or do that or improve this in your life?

Well, I’ve just spent a little time on the internet reading such things as…101 ways to be happy, 40 ways to be happy 6 ways to be happy and the list went on and on!

Wow and the thing is whilst being right in a way that is giving advice of where and how to find happiness in the world I got the impression they were all forgetting one thing.

One thing Paul what’s that?
The one thing that appeared to be missing was to me the most important ~ shall I tell you now or later?
Well all these ways we telling people to do this and do that to experience happiness (Oh by the way this means I’ll tell you later) Yes you can go do these things but if you’re not feeling happy right now will you I doubt it. If you’re feeling low, down or depressed I know you won’t because it’s hard to imagine taking all that effort.

Now you may be thinking right now where’s this going? If all these articles are missing something what is it?

Now here’s the thing
You can go anywhere and everywhere to try to find happiness but the thing is you will only find it in one place. Looking for it outside isn’t where it is.

Where is happiness? True happiness?
It’s with you all the time, it’s in you and has been since you were created! And when you feel it on the inside, everything on the outside changes and so does everyone around you. It’s infectious the best virus in the world. Here’s a quick example of that virus ~ A simple happy smile cannot not make someone smile too and every smile as happy feelings. It’s that simple to start.

If you want to go further you may want to do this. (you will have to read this first and remember what to do)
• Close your eyes
• Breathe gently and ask inside with your inner voice “What’s made me feel happy in the past, one specific time?” and you will remember a time in your mind.
• Jump back into that memory, into your body in that memory and see what you saw and hear what you heard and FEEL the FEELINGS NOW.
• Double the feeling and double them again and smile on the inside and outside too.
• Do this again a couple of times maybe with a different memory and always finish with a smile on the most intense happy feelings.

Now to test:
Clear you mind and think of anything different your phone number backwards for example
Then
SMILE ~ Smile just like you did and…………………………………
Notice how you feel now.

Unfortunately you are now anchored in (something we teach in our NLP trainings)
Every time you smile you’re going to feel this intense happy feeling (what a shame) and you may just create happy feelings in everyone you smile at too.

Remember to check out how we can help click here

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Successful Hypnotherapy in 2 Sessions ~ Bournemouth

Successful Hypnotherapy in 2 Sessions ~ Bournemouth

Yes that’s right you can make the changes to your life and be the way you want ~

Quickly     and       Easily

Here’ just two recent examples of clients testimonials

“I went to Bournemouth Hypnotherapy Clinic when I had exhausted all other ideas of how to overcome a personal issue. Apprehensive about the experience I met Paul for a free, no obligations consultation and was instantly put at ease about the process and knew from that moment this was the course of treatment for me.

 After just two sessions I am now at a place where I am happy and I know that my issue will be resolved soon enough, as it is so much better following the sessions that I have had. Paul touches upon the wider issues surrounding the problem and therefore resolves some underlying situations that may be having an impact on your life also.

 Others around me have noticed a difference as well and after battling for 8 years, in just 3 hours of hypnotherapy, I can finally see the light at the end of the tunnel!!!!

 Thank you so much Paul. “

SG Bournemouth

AND ANOTHER………………….

“I have had 2 sessions of hypnotherapy from Paul and I have found these 2 sessions have changed my way of thinking and life. I suffered from anxiety and found I couldn’t be in public places. These 2 sessions have completely changed my views on life and different situations. I would completely recommend Paul’s hypnotherapy to anyone and you find instant results. I am now able to be in public places without worrying or suffering from any panic attacks. Thank you again Paul.”

ML Bournemouth

If you want to find out how we can help you that quickly contact us by phone 01202 428 309 and speak to us personally

or click here to email

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